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Name: Miss Alice


Interests: my sweetie Markie, my kiddos,reading, sewing/quilting, directing stage productions, watching soccer (esp. when someone I know is playing) and listening to beautiful music played by none other than my beautiful children.
Expertise: though I don't consider myself an expert on anything, I do have opinions on virtually everything. I fancy myself being pretty good at having babies, homeschooling and being shown that I'm wrong by my children Oh yes--spending 1/3 of my year (translate: that's 100 nights+) in hotel rooms
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Wednesday, June 17, 2009

wow, it has been so long since i made a xanga post, that i had to ask one of the girls how do it.

for those that haven't found me on facebook and don't know..........drum roll please......

Caleb is getting married in 3 days!!!!!

her name is Janelle and we love her (so does he!!!)

       


Monday, March 24, 2008

black and white

Forgot about this one.

Today the little girls were sitting on the front row at church and we were 3 rows behind them.  Which is not easy if you need to correct behaviour of any sort....which happened.  I tap the person in front of me to tap the girl in front of her, at which point I asked her to tap my daughter and then clarified...the white one please.  This illicited  a giggle from the row in front of me and I told them about losing Hannah and Joyce in Walmart (they had been walking behind me and suddenly disappeared).  It was one of those moments when you find yourself talking out loud to the person whom you think is behind you, but they aren't and the person that is isn't them.  At which point I ask if they have seen a couple of people, "One tall, one short, one black, one white".  She was able to point out the aisle they had disappeared down from my description.  My advise on being politically correct?  Just cut to the chase and call  them as you see them!!


the same bolt of cloth???

Well, many people upon laying their gaze on Freeman's pictures, all commented on the mischievous grin and what it hid.  Tonight I had to tell him to quit smiling at me.  No seriously.  I'm trying to explain why we don't do certain actions because they could hurt someone and he just keeps smiling.  It is somewhat unnerving...like you are looking at an alien that once you turn your back will somehow enter your spine and take over.  Trust me, those were my nice thoughts.  Corrie says you never trust someone that smiles that much.  She's right.  So, Joyce and I are having our night-time ritual of discussions and Freeman is down below just blathering on with all kinds of nonsensical noise.  Joyce calls his name "Freeman!!"  it means, 'would you shut up!'  I look at her and shake my head and agree that he is something else, but guess what, Caleb was alot like that (not quite so non-stop though) and Joyce replies with, "Caleb and Freeman they talk (now this means something other than just using words, but I haven't totally figured it out).  They are from the same horse."

hmmmm, I don't think that is the same thing as calling someone a donkey (though they have struggled calling horses donkeys), but I take great comfort in knowing that both our sons come from the same horse. 

It also makes me really tired....I need to restock my wine coolers.



Friday, March 21, 2008

Without an idea of sin, Easter is meaningless...

This article just ran in USA TODAY.  I found it very thought provoking and some of the one-liners give pause to consider...

Soon I'll write some thoughts on the concept of adoption and how amazing it is that God uses "adoption" as a depiction of the fulfillment of the gospel.  Until then, consider this article and the fact that Easter is about redemption, but we must see that He has redeemed us from sin.

alice


by Cathy Lynn Grossman, USA TODAY
Is sin dead? No, not by a long shot. Yet as Easter approaches, some pastors and theologians worry: How can Christians celebrate Jesus' atonement for their sins and the promise of eternal life in his resurrection if they don't recognize themselves as sinners?

Take it from Pope Benedict XVI. He says the modern world "is losing the notion of sin." And not just personal sins such as greed, lust or the rest of the infamous Seven Deadlies, but social sins, too, such as polluting the planet or allowing injustice to flourish.

Take it from the Rev. Albert Mohler, president of Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, who doesn't give a jelly bean for the modern version of Easter.

"All the Easter eggs and the Easter bunny are even more extraneous to the purpose of Easter than Santa is to Christmas," Mohler says. "At least Santa Claus was based on a saint. I wonder whether even some Christian churches are making the connection between Christ's death and resurrection and victory over sin — the linchpin doctrine of Christianity."

Take it from pollsters.

A new survey by Ellison Research in Phoenix finds 87% of U.S. adults believe in the existence of sin, which is defined as "something that is almost always considered wrong, particularly from a religious or moral perspective."

Topping the list are adultery (81%) and racism (74%).

But other sins no longer draw majority condemnation. Premarital sex? Only 45% call it sin. Gambling? Just 30% say it's sinful.

"A lot of this is relative. We tend to view sin not as God views it, but how we view it," says Ellison president Ron Sellers.

David Kinnaman, president of Barna Research, a company in Ventura, Calif., that tracks Christian trends, draws a similar conclusion: "People are quick to toe the line on traditional thinking" that there is sin "but interpret that reality in a very personal and self-congratulatory manner" — I have to do what's best for me; I am not as sinful as most.

Indeed, 65% of U.S. adults say they will go to heaven, and only 0.05% believe they'll go to hell, according to a 2003 Barna telephone survey of 1,024 adults.

"They give intellectual assent to the story about Jesus rising on Easter Sunday: 75% say they believe the biblical account of Jesus' death and resurrection is literally true, not a story meant to illustrate a principle. But they don't have any personal application of this Monday through Saturday," Kinnaman says.

Popular evangelist Joel Osteen, pastor of Lakewood Church in Houston, never mentions sin in his TV sermons or best sellers such as Your Best Life Now.

"I never thought about (using the word 'sinners'), but I probably don't," Osteen told Larry King in an interview. "Most people already know what they're doing wrong. When I get them to church, I want to tell them that you can change."

The Rev. Michael Horton, professor of theology at Westminster Seminary in Escondido, Calif., calls this "moral therapy."

"It's changing your lifestyle to receive God's favor," Horton says. "It's not heaven in the hereafter but happiness here and now. But it is still up to you to make it happen."

He finds sad truth in an old newspaper headline he once saw: " 'To hell with sin when being good is enough.' That's the drift of American preaching today in a lot of churches. People know what sin is; they just don't believe in it anymore. We mix up happiness and holiness, and God is no longer the reference point."

In other words, he asks, if you can solve your problems or sins yourself, what difference does it make that Christ was crucified?  

People have to see themselves as sinners — ultimately alienated from God and unable to save themselves — for Christ's sacrifice to be essential, Horton says. "(The apostle) Paul didn't see Easter as therapy."  (italics and bold added)

Pope Benedict, in his prayers last week, said, "People who trust in themselves and in their own merits are, as it were, blinded by their own 'I,' and their hearts harden in sin. On the other hand, those who recognize themselves as weak and sinful entrust themselves to God, and from him obtain grace and forgiveness."

Even some people who say sin is real still steer by a compass of "moral pragmatics," not a bright line of absolute truth, Mohler says. "People say, 'I have high moral expectations of myself and others, but I know we are all human so I'm looking for a batting average.'

"We find a comfort zone of morality, a kind of middle-class middle level where we think we are doing well. We cut the grass. We don't double-park. But we ignore the larger issues of sin.

"Instead of violating the law of the Creator, it becomes more a matter of etiquette. … We want our kids to play well in the sandbox and know their place in line. We want people to do things decently and in order. But it's etiquette of morality without the ethics. The end result is that when we do things we wish people wouldn't do, there's no sense of guilt or shame."

Rules have changed

The rise of secular culture also is exerting an influence. More than one in five Americans (22%) say they never go to church, not even on Christmas or Easter. And 12.1% told a new Pew Forum survey they believe "nothing in particular."

They may be without a church, but "most people still have a notion of sin — like bringing cheap wine to parties," jokes Karsen Case, 34, of Reno. "Seriously, you know what sin is when you get a feeling in your gut that something's wrong."

He hasn't been to church in a decade, although he grew up within the conservative Lutheran Missouri Synod. "I would call myself an atheist now," he says. "But I think the Bible has a lot of good stories. And I do connect with the story of Easter, of redemption and rebirth. It tells me you are going to make mistakes, and you will get another chance to do right in the future."

Secular people still believe there's sin, judgment and punishment, says sociologist Barry Kosmin, a research professor in public policy and law and director of the Institute for the Study of Secularism in Society & Culture at Trinity College in Hartford, Conn.

It's just a different list of sinners than religious traditions teach.

"What is unacceptable has changed," Kosmin observes. "Racism and sexual harassment, which were not sins in the past, are now. Adultery and addiction are just bad or sad behavior. And commercial sex is a no, but breaking the bonds of marriage is not.

"Secularism is situational without fundamental, universal rules. Explanations are kosher. Mitigating circumstances, too. But if people are held guilty, the punishment, of course, has to be in this world, not the next. Secular people don't burn in hell, they burn in the court of public opinion."

Self, not sin

Two pastors serving youthful congregations in big cities, long the statistical capitals of secular culture, say they must talk about sin to be true to their calling. They just have to use 21st-century lingo.

Tim Keller of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in Manhattan is a modern-day variation of the circuit-riding preacher. He dashes across Central Park to three different leased locations to serve 5,000 worshipers at five services on Sundays.

When Keller, author of The Reason for God: Belief in an Age of Skepticism, speaks about "sin" to his audiences, which are 70% single and younger than 40, "I use it with lots and lots of explanation, because the word is essentially obsolete.

"They do get the idea of branding, of taking a word or term and filling it with your own content, so I have to rebrand the word 'sin,' " Keller says.

"Around here it means self-centeredness, the acorn from which it all grows. Individually, that means 'I live for myself, for my own glory and happiness, and I'll work for your happiness if it helps me.' Communally, self-centeredness is destroying peace and justice in the world, tearing the net of interwovenness, the fabric of humanity."

Mark Driscoll says a little talk of hellfire, so out of fashion these days, would do the world good.

Driscoll founded Mars Hill Church in Seattle, a non-denominational megachurch with 7,000 in Sunday attendance, chiefly singles in their 20s.

He defines sin as "anything contrary to God's will. People assume the way they are is normal, not that something has gone terribly wrong, and this world is abnormal."

Although his primary audience is newbie Christians, Driscoll is sharply clear: "Without an idea of sin, Easter is meaningless."


Thursday, March 13, 2008

This is the day...

...that the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it.

It is a quarter till 2.  I am still in my pjs and my hair looks like Cruella Deville.  I am digging through the refrigerator for a wine cooler but need to settle for the last of the Mogen David.

I woke before 8 to a very whiny puppy needing to go out.  I've been battling a head cold, so I was trying to get as much sleep as possible, but the pup and the kids in the next room were going to cut that short.  So out Yub goes, does his thing and in he comes.  I sit down on the bedroom floor, Joyce begins rubbing my back.  It feels so good.  Suddenly one of the kids yell, "NO YUB"---he's pooping---on my bedroom floor---in front of me.  I grab him and administer punishment (WARNING: FOR ANYONE READING THIS THAT HAS ISSUES WITH ADMINISTERING PUNISHMENT TO PETS OR CHILDREN--THEN I SUGGEST YOU QUIT READING NOW.)  I came downstairs to put him out to find not 1, not 2, but 3 additional piles of poop.  Suffice it to say, this did not go over well.

We got through breakfast, cream of wheat and cinnamon rolls and medicine, etc without much ado.  I told the kids we needed to clean up the house before we played outside and that perhaps we could go to the park today before Abby's dress rehearsal.  Came downstairs to try to figure out why the washer had not drained any water from the last load, restart, reset.  While I'm working on this Abby comes to report that Hannah needs my help with Joyce who has suddenly turned sullen and disrespectful and pouting.  This is not anything new, this is the Liberian way, but it is not the American or Reinhardt way, so we've been working with learning new habits.  Unfortunately, sometimes, the smallest battles turn into huge wars because their stubbornness is UNBELIEVABLE.  It has stretched and tested my parenting skills in more ways than I can count or imagine. 

I head upstairs to find Joyce pouting on the bed, refusing to obey Hannah.  This battle of holding, tears, instructions, discipline, more holding, louder tears and wailing, more instructions went on for 1 hour plus before Joyce willingly complied with Hannah's request.  Abby makes an appearance, Freeman has just knocked over a tall glass of ice tea (an accident) at the table, soaking 2 chair cushions, the carpet and everything on the table.  I set Joyce down and go down to take care of this.  He and Abby are both cleaning up to the best of their ability.  The phone rings, it is the dr from the international clinic with their blood test results.  Hannah proceeds with lunch, I pass.

The kids head down for 30 minutes of jumping on the trampoline before naptime and I start vacuuming the fuzz that has accumulated all over the carpet.  The vacuum seems to be blowing, not sucking.  I change the bag, turn around and find a pee puddle from the dogs.  Sigh.  Both dogs are scolded and put out.  The vacuum still is struggling and now smells like a belt is burning up.  Still not sure about the washing machine and dance begins in an hour.

Where are those blasted wine coolers?



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